Finding out you're pregnant while in college can be a shock, but it doesn't have to derail your dreams. Many women have successfully balanced their studies and parenthood, and you can too. At The Mercy House, we understand the unique challenges you're facing and are here to offer support and guidance.
Knowing Your Options
When you're faced with an unplanned pregnancy, it's important to take some time to consider your options. There are three main choices:
- Parenting: Raising your child is a rewarding experience, but it comes with significant challenges. If you're considering parenting, make sure you have a plan for how you'll balance your studies, childcare, and other responsibilities.
- Adoption: Choosing to place your child for adoption is a selfless decision that can give your child a loving home. There are many different types of adoption arrangements, so it's important to talk to a counselor or adoption agency to learn more about your options.
- Abortion: Abortion is a medical procedure that ends a pregnancy. It's a personal decision that should be made in consultation with a healthcare provider and trusted support system.
Your Rights as a Pregnant Student
Federal law protects pregnant and parenting students from discrimination. Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972 prohibits schools from discriminating against students on the basis of sex. This includes discrimination based on pregnancy, childbirth, or parental status.
Under Title IX, schools are required to provide pregnant and parenting students with reasonable accommodations, such as:
- Extended deadlines for assignments or exams
- Modified class schedules or attendance policies
- Access to childcare facilities
- Privacy and confidentiality
If you feel like your school is not complying with Title IX, you can file a complaint with the U.S. Department of Education's Office for Civil Rights.
Resources for Pregnant and Parenting Students
There are many resources available to help pregnant and parenting students. Here are a few:
- The Mercy House: We offer a variety of services to support pregnant and parenting students, including pregnancy testing, pregnancy options counseling, and referrals to community resources.
- Your college or university: Your school may have resources specifically for pregnant and parenting students, such as academic advisors, childcare centers, and financial aid assistance.
Wrapping Up
Being pregnant and in college can be challenging, but it's not impossible. By taking advantage of the resources available to you and seeking support from your loved ones, you can successfully navigate this journey and achieve your goals. Remember, you are not alone. The Mercy House is here to provide compassionate support and non-judgmental guidance as you navigate this unexpected pregnancy. We offer a variety of services, including pregnancy testing, options counseling, and referrals to community resources.
If you're feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about your next steps, please don't hesitate to reach out to us or schedule an appointment online. We're here to help you explore your options, make informed decisions, and access the support you need to thrive.